Lets talk about being positive and being logical at the same time. Like they say, to win or succeed, you have to be positive all the time. Well, that doesn't mean every single thing you must be positive about it. Logic comes into play and that's where you have to think of ways to defy that logic. Nothing's simple in life. Suck it up, and just accept it as it is, then suddenly life seems happier.
Life's just suck and you feel shitty about it because you think its shitty. Take that shitty-ness and put it at the back of your head, so that instead of just feeling shitty, do something about it! Nothing you can do you say? Did you try? If you did, you failed? So you're giving up? No solutions? Don't know what to do? Friends! True friends. They're there for you to talk to and give any kind of help they could, any kind of advice they might know. In the end, there's so much a friend could do to help you, only you can change your life yourself.
Stand up! Take that 1st step. Don't be lazy. It's your legs, not your friends', your siblings', your parents'. Not sure whether you're taking the right 1st step? Ask. Always ask. Anyone, including yourself. Are you doing the right thing for you? Can't make that 1st step? You don't know how to move the leg? Again, ask. No one's stupid just because he or she asked. No wrong in asking too. Whoever you ask, if they don't know, they'll tell you they won't know. If they do know, and they're friends, they'll tell you. Put all the shame, pride, ego, etc. behind. With all that advice, you just have to see which one you'll trust and follow in the end.
Now to continue walking after that 1st step. There'll be stones, rocks and gaps along the way. Many obstacles in life that in a way blocks if not a clear path. How do you solve that problem? How do you move a rock bigger than you? Its too heavy to be pushed, too hard to break. Easy! Walk around it. See a river so wide, current so strong. What do you do? No, no. Don't walk upstream. It'll take you forever. Cheat! Call a friend from the other side. Ask him/her to throw a line across and help you across the river. What I mean is that, some problems can be solved on our own. Through past experiences and lessons, we'll know what to do. That's why its so important to learn from your mistakes. Bigger problems we sometimes can't solve it on our own. Friends, people who care, families, they're there to lend us a hand. They ask for no favours in return, so don't hurt them by taking their love and care for granted.
I can't stand being sad, or emo, or angry. It just drives me crazy. Sad, and I won't be able to think straight for long. Emo, I'll give up on a lot of stuffs. Angry, I'll just hurt people, whether its physically or mentally. Being happy and cheerful, that's something everyone should be feeling. Even though you're down, be happy that you have friends that still cares. Be happy. So others will be happy too. It works. Ask my closest friends. We're all happily laughing away without a care everytime we meet. Even when either one of us has problems.
Oh, some memories from the good ol' Sparks days.
HEHEHEHEHE. OH LE LE, OH LA LA! MACHE LA BELLE, MACHE LA BAKKA!
WAHAHAHAHHAHAHA =D
